Hanging in there means not to give up on something even if it is difficult. See this short but to the point blog from Psychology Today How To Hang In There When Times Get Tough which suggests that Looking beyond yourself may be an answer. It also cites a great quote from the American abolitionist and author Harriet Beecher Stowe: “When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.”
That for me is the key. Often just when a negotiation seems absolutely moribund or a job seems to have no future is exactly the time to look for the change or opportunity to fix matters that is just around the corner. As Bob Dylan and others have sung The darkest hour is just before the dawn.
It’s all about persistence and not giving up. See this Forbes piece about the challenges entrepreneurs setting up a business face From Idea to Business: Persistence is Critical. It has some good suggestions to help you when the going gets tough including:
1) Don’t panic. Don’t give up. Be at peace. Have faith. Know you will develop an answer.
2) Take time to ponder and understand the situation. Obtain all the facts. Find out what happened and why.
3) Consider every option and every possibility to solve the problem.
It concludes Great leaders are survivors. They have weathered life’s stormy seas. They have moved heaven and earth to accomplish their business goals. They will never give up.
See also this Harvard Business Review article Giving Up Is the Enemy of Creativity which suggests that we tend to undervalue the benefits of persistenceand observesConsider that Sir James Dyson developed over 5,000 prototypes before he patented his best-selling Dyson vacuum cleaner. Or that Walt Disney animated cartoons for nearly two decades before his first big hit, Snow White and the Seven Dwarves.
As Winston Churchill said Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm.
The English actor, film producer, and musician Tom Hiddleston commented You never know what's around the corner. It could be everything. Or it could be nothing. You keep putting one foot in front of the other, and then one day you look back and you've climbed a mountain.
So, as we look forward and back at the turn of the year let’s do so with optimism and enthusiasm, looking for the answers and hanging in there when necessary.
All the best for Xmas and the New Year.
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